Maybe both! You have to be honest with yourself. Is there anything you can still do? Do you want to?
The only truth is your own sincere self observation.
Maybe it is time to let go. Let go of what you can’t control and start focusing all your energy on what you can control: building your own dreams, projects & life.
I explain how in this video! It is (just) a shift in mindset.
But remember: change is hard at first, messy in the middle and beautiful in the end.